Monday, 18 January 2016
Half Year Already
Half year already, I also don't realize the time passed. My hubby is a very nice person. And, I'm lucky to have him. But how can I live without seeing him on weekdays. We only see each other weekend as he work far from me. However, I trust him. This long distance relationship make me more mature and sensitive too. Please Allah, lend me your strength.. I love him.
Saturday, 21 March 2015
Wonderful make me Wonder...
Hi guys,, well, I had a story.. a nice ones. it's about the love that make me wonder. this started years ago. Cinderella met her prince charming but not knowing that him is the ones. and so, Cinderella just seem him as bothersome. However, things started to change when her prince save her from a dark world and brings her to a wonderful castle that make her wonder.. but them Cinderella been left in the tower for a couple of years. However, the miracle did happen and her prince come back to pick her up. that is the time now and I wish this moment and love will keep going in the world and hereafter.. make me wonder....
Sunday, 7 September 2014
Memories...
Today when I climbed Broga Hills, I found that I really miss my family in Machang, PBSM CiPT UiTM Kelantan. They are my family back then. During Diploma time, I was one of commander for UiTM Machang. I missed them so much, it's been 2 years I last saw them. All the memories kept rolling in my mind, the time we went for camp, hiking, lunch together, family day together and meeting until late night. I really missed those memories. They are nice, funny and our bond really tight. If one falls, we all will help him or her to get up. We had been taking care for each other. I missed the smell of our sweat when doing outdoor activities. I hope I can see them again.
Thursday, 4 September 2014
How to Improve your Verbal and Non-verbal Communication
VERBAL COMMUNICATION
These are the ways to enhance your Verbal Communication:
- eliminate noise such as people talking, radio sound and etc.
- get feedback, you can see through the audience verbal and body signals
- speak slowly and rephrase your sentence
- don't ever talk down to the other people
- listen carefully and patiently
- keep it sweet and simple
NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION
Non-verbal communication help the speaker to convey their ideas more effectively.
There are several ways to improve non-verbal communication such as:
- keep appropriate distance
- touch only when appropriate
- take care of your appearance
- be aware as people may give false cues
- maintain eye contact
- smile genuinely
- improve your gesture and posture
Facial expressions can be put a lot more interesting for the audience. Facial expression for each emotions are different. There are six categories of facial expressions which includes, happiness, sadness, anger, disgust, surprise and fear.
These are the ways to enhance your Verbal Communication:
- eliminate noise such as people talking, radio sound and etc.
- get feedback, you can see through the audience verbal and body signals
- speak slowly and rephrase your sentence
- don't ever talk down to the other people
- listen carefully and patiently
- keep it sweet and simple
NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION
Non-verbal communication help the speaker to convey their ideas more effectively.
There are several ways to improve non-verbal communication such as:
- keep appropriate distance
- touch only when appropriate
- take care of your appearance
- be aware as people may give false cues
- maintain eye contact
- smile genuinely
- improve your gesture and posture
Facial expressions can be put a lot more interesting for the audience. Facial expression for each emotions are different. There are six categories of facial expressions which includes, happiness, sadness, anger, disgust, surprise and fear.
Caring Workplace Practices
In order to create a comfortable working environment, you must first play your role. You have to give your respect to others before earn respect from them. Create a caring workplace practices among the employees and employer. This practices consist of :
C- Creative Communication
A- Atmosphere and Appreciation
R- Respect and Reason for being
E- Empathy and Enthusiasm
You have to be an effective communicator to build rapport with colleagues, subordinates, employer, suppliers and customers. These are the Things to Avoid as an Effective Communicator :
1. Don't assume or interrupt while talking.
2. Inconsistent BODY LANGUAGE
3. Negativity and whining (go around and around) behavior
4. Using jargon and words that are difficult to understand
5. Rambling (talk nonsense) conversations
6. Accepting phone calls when others are talking
7. Tapping, fidgeting or looking away
8. Avoid eye contact
9. Avoid sarcasm
C- Creative Communication
A- Atmosphere and Appreciation
R- Respect and Reason for being
E- Empathy and Enthusiasm
You have to be an effective communicator to build rapport with colleagues, subordinates, employer, suppliers and customers. These are the Things to Avoid as an Effective Communicator :
1. Don't assume or interrupt while talking.
2. Inconsistent BODY LANGUAGE
3. Negativity and whining (go around and around) behavior
4. Using jargon and words that are difficult to understand
5. Rambling (talk nonsense) conversations
6. Accepting phone calls when others are talking
7. Tapping, fidgeting or looking away
8. Avoid eye contact
9. Avoid sarcasm
Saturday, 30 August 2014
How to write an email..
Email have become one of the communication medium in business nowadays. Email can be formal and informal. And for business purpose email should be formal.
There are several manner you need to follow to write a business email such as, to be professional ethics, you can't use harsh word, don't ever scold your recipient, be calm and address as a person (adult) and be short and precise on what your intention writing the email because people don't have time to read so long. You are advice to be nice and firm.
1. Paragraph
you are advice to write email with 3 paragraph.
-introduction
-content
-conclusion
2. Language
you should master vocabulary , so it would be easier for you to write email faster and with correct spelling. Because if you write with wrong spelling you give your customer bad impression about your company.
3. Style
style is format. This is how you present yourself in the email. This is crucial as the recipient may or may not know you. So, the only way the recipient know you is through your writing. Certain company has standard style. Remember to show your courtesy.
There are several manner you need to follow to write a business email such as, to be professional ethics, you can't use harsh word, don't ever scold your recipient, be calm and address as a person (adult) and be short and precise on what your intention writing the email because people don't have time to read so long. You are advice to be nice and firm.
1. Paragraph
you are advice to write email with 3 paragraph.
-introduction
-content
-conclusion
2. Language
you should master vocabulary , so it would be easier for you to write email faster and with correct spelling. Because if you write with wrong spelling you give your customer bad impression about your company.
3. Style
style is format. This is how you present yourself in the email. This is crucial as the recipient may or may not know you. So, the only way the recipient know you is through your writing. Certain company has standard style. Remember to show your courtesy.
Monday, 25 August 2014
THE 3P IN KNOWLEDGE SHARING
These technique can be practice in class or meeting. So that the session will be more productive.
1. Punctuality
-keep to time in group work, assignment, meeting time and deadlines.
- for example, the work start at 9.00 a.m. So, you should already at the desk and ready for work at 9.00 a.m.
-don't disturb others with your late.
Image
-you are a representative for your organization. So, you have the responsibility to maintain a good image for your organization. Come early for a meeting especially when you are dealing with other people. Don't be late for even one second. Your company may loss million Ringgit because of you late for one minute.
-businessman very particular about time as for them, every second is the opportunity of business.
2. Pay Attention
-focus in class and meeting. Stop play with your gadgets especially cellphone. Take notes, you can write a main ideas and a suggestion for improvement. Remember that a critical mind is when you start to focus more on the solution of the problem not the cause of it. Yes, you need to know the cause. But that it, find more than one solution and decide which the best.
3. Participate Actively
-develop your questioning mind. A mind that working is a mind that develop question. Please ask question. Question is a symbol of intelligent. There is no such thing as silly question, there's only silly answer. You will never get an answer without asking. So, please ask.
1. Punctuality
-keep to time in group work, assignment, meeting time and deadlines.
- for example, the work start at 9.00 a.m. So, you should already at the desk and ready for work at 9.00 a.m.
-don't disturb others with your late.
Image
-you are a representative for your organization. So, you have the responsibility to maintain a good image for your organization. Come early for a meeting especially when you are dealing with other people. Don't be late for even one second. Your company may loss million Ringgit because of you late for one minute.
-businessman very particular about time as for them, every second is the opportunity of business.
2. Pay Attention
-focus in class and meeting. Stop play with your gadgets especially cellphone. Take notes, you can write a main ideas and a suggestion for improvement. Remember that a critical mind is when you start to focus more on the solution of the problem not the cause of it. Yes, you need to know the cause. But that it, find more than one solution and decide which the best.
3. Participate Actively
-develop your questioning mind. A mind that working is a mind that develop question. Please ask question. Question is a symbol of intelligent. There is no such thing as silly question, there's only silly answer. You will never get an answer without asking. So, please ask.
CHANGE MANAGEMENT
Do you and me need to change? and why?
Is about time for me to change. I already know back then but I resist to make changes. Why? The reasons because I'm afraid of the uncertainty and I'm lack of confident until today. This morning change my perception toward life. I would like to share with you with the hope that you guys can make changes for your sake not mine.
WHY I NEED TO CHANGE?
- the world is moving forward not backward. So, in order to stay we need to keep up. Nobody will wait for us. Change is the only ways to keep up.
WHAT I NEED TO CHANGE?
-your perception. Change your perspective. Don't stuck with negativity. "This can't be done. I don't want to try. Its too difficult. I'm not good enough." those words need to put in a dustbin. Those thought is not good for our self-esteem. For some reasons, I admit that I also struggling with these words. However, let by gone be by gone. Move forward.
-clear with the purpose of the change you make. When you have an objective, you'll find yourself driven to success.
HOW TO CHANGE?
-the basic things is to plan your change. Start with your self development. Be positive! Be more observant and sensitive to change that take place around you.
"Those who have no plan is PLAN TO FAIL."
-don't keep on doing the same thing. Think of a strategy for your change.
Is about time for me to change. I already know back then but I resist to make changes. Why? The reasons because I'm afraid of the uncertainty and I'm lack of confident until today. This morning change my perception toward life. I would like to share with you with the hope that you guys can make changes for your sake not mine.
WHY I NEED TO CHANGE?
- the world is moving forward not backward. So, in order to stay we need to keep up. Nobody will wait for us. Change is the only ways to keep up.
WHAT I NEED TO CHANGE?
-your perception. Change your perspective. Don't stuck with negativity. "This can't be done. I don't want to try. Its too difficult. I'm not good enough." those words need to put in a dustbin. Those thought is not good for our self-esteem. For some reasons, I admit that I also struggling with these words. However, let by gone be by gone. Move forward.
-clear with the purpose of the change you make. When you have an objective, you'll find yourself driven to success.
HOW TO CHANGE?
-the basic things is to plan your change. Start with your self development. Be positive! Be more observant and sensitive to change that take place around you.
"Those who have no plan is PLAN TO FAIL."
-don't keep on doing the same thing. Think of a strategy for your change.
Sunday, 27 April 2014
LET IT GO....
It is time to let go the negative thinking that you and I have. On this day forward, I'll challenge me and you to be a positive thinker. Open your mind. Don't just be a wall person, being shy and let other do everything. Please change to be someone that everybody hope for. You can do it. There's is no limit for us. The only limit is our minds.
"The sky is the limit"
"The sky is the limit"
What Make You Play Musical Instrument
Playing any musical instrument will help you in many ways
such as improving your mathematic skills, creativity and reading and
comprehensive skills. Apart from that, by playing musical instrument you will
tend to be more focus as you have looking at the note and play. Besides, your
interpersonal skills also will be improve. This is because when you play with a
group of people, you have to mingle around and learn to work in a team. Thus,
kindly choose an instrument to play
Sunday, 30 March 2014
Monday, 24 February 2014
nie ak jumpa...
Tip Mengenal Diri Sendiri Melalui Tarikh Lahir- Dr Fadhilah Kamsah.
1. Pemimpin
2. Lembut
3. Kemas (Cerewet)
4. Rajin
5. Boleh berbincang
6. Angin
7. Patuh
8. Bisnes
9. Glamour
2. Lembut
3. Kemas (Cerewet)
4. Rajin
5. Boleh berbincang
6. Angin
7. Patuh
8. Bisnes
9. Glamour
Contoh : 20 05 1981
2 + 0 = 2
Maka kotak pertama adalah 2..
Kemudian campurkan kesemua nombor..
2 + 0 + 0 + 5 + 1 + 9 + 8 + 1 = 26
Kemudian hasil campur yang lebih dari 9 akan dicampur lagi seperti:
2 + 6 = 8
Maka kotak kedua adalah 8..
Selepas itu kotak pertama akan dicampur ngan kotak kedua
2 + 8 = 10
Oleh kerana hasil campur lebih dari 9 maka dicampur lagi
1 + 0 = 1
Friday, 8 November 2013
Bajet 2014
assalamualaikum hello guys...and ladies.. as an economic student i would like to express my view regarding the budget 2014. there a always two side in one coin.. so, i see two side of this budget. firstly, the famous topic is GST, for me, GST is a good things because government really need money to counter government fiscal deficit. i can't agree more in that. you see, many of the enterprise and individuals (the rich ones) avoid from paying tax. so by the implementation of GST, government can trace this enterprise as these enterprise need to claim their input cost from the government. the government is wise in planning. However, the other side of the coin will increase inflation rate and cost of living in Malaysia especially for those who live in urban area. Our poverty issues in urban area will mostly affected by this. as inflation rate increase , the general price level almost all good and services will rise. with the stagnant income level, how the citizens in the middle income and lower income can stand with this. I understand that, the government has their reason for this and that. Government promise that they will increase in the BR1M, however, we must know that giving one pay-off can't help the citizens at all time. so the solution to this matter is, we must find other method to increase our income. We can do part time job is necessary.
Secondly is that, the government allocation for the health ministry not enough to provide medical treatment for the patient especially kidney failure patient. Their cost really high. The government should give them subsidy and faster, don't led these poor people wait. I'm sad today as I was read the newspaper, the patient waited for month for the government to approve their application request for the subsidy. Come on, please react fast for us.. We choose you, we gave our trust in You... Please, help these poor people.. I can't..That's why I need you to help them.. all in all, this just my feeling..
Secondly is that, the government allocation for the health ministry not enough to provide medical treatment for the patient especially kidney failure patient. Their cost really high. The government should give them subsidy and faster, don't led these poor people wait. I'm sad today as I was read the newspaper, the patient waited for month for the government to approve their application request for the subsidy. Come on, please react fast for us.. We choose you, we gave our trust in You... Please, help these poor people.. I can't..That's why I need you to help them.. all in all, this just my feeling..
Saturday, 26 October 2013
one year..
it about 1 year i stop blogging because I'm afraid of others perception about me. but I'm not afraid anymore.. i mean, Why should I afraid.. feeling and opinion are freely to be expressed no matter what is and who are you. you may read nice or not so nice post after this.. sorry if you feel offended.
Thursday, 8 March 2012
stress!!
the best ways to handle stress is by relax..
Healthy ways to relax and recharge
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